☒ I haven't messed around with those options to know if they are making any difference or not. You could always make a custom upload controller, use the new url instead of "this.url" which is taken from the direct upload, and return a variant record. However, you'd still have the full size image stored via ActiveStorage and may need to clean those up periodically.
☒ I haven't looked much into this, but with AL2, my guess would be to use the Procfile to declare the service to run. I would probably also look at running the Worker environment type instead of a Web worker. The rest of the config should be pretty similar